The 0-1 year old baby will also make trouble?
[Introduction]Western psychologists have discovered that the first time a newborn baby takes the initiative to breathe, he already has the ability to feel angry.
By the time of 4 months, the baby can express his anger clearly.
As he slowly learns to use more movements, expressions and language to express emotions, tantrums become a way for the baby to vent to lower emotions.
At this time, it is very important for parents to help the baby learn to control his anger.
If the baby is difficult to vent anger smoothly or anger in life, it will constitute a hidden danger of good character development.
0-6 months At this stage, the baby’s emotions and sorrows suffer from their own physiological feelings and external stimuli. Therefore, parents ask the baby to control their own emotions, which is impossible for him.
At this time, Mom and Dad’s attention and comfort to him is the only way to help the baby control to reduce emotions.
Tips to help your baby divert attention and help your baby get out of anger and other emotions.
For example, when he expresses dissatisfaction in a noisy environment, it is the best way to comfortably take your baby out of the noise environment as soon as possible.
If the baby is crying because of the newborn, the mother should feed him in time.
If the mother does not breastfeed until he cries his throat and hoarse, it will cause the baby to have physiological resistance to touch due to excessive compression, which is manifested as adverse physiological reactions such as spitting milk and lethargy.
These consequences will make it difficult for him to calm down from volatility, expressing anger in a continuous, high-frequency way with crying.
The baby at this stage of 6-12 months has learned a lot of great motor skills, such as: crawling, walking, etc., and can communicate with mom and dad through rich voices, expressions and even simple words.
At this point, the baby’s anger is beginning to be refined into uneasiness, anger and fear.
Self-avoidance and attention to the attitude of mom and dad became the main way of self-regulation of his anger.
Tips · Mom and Dad are the people that the baby trusts, so the attitude of parents to things is affecting the baby’s mood more and more.
For example: Mom and Dad happily accompanying the baby to play a slide he has never played, will greatly reduce his inner anxiety.
· Mom and Dad should correct the baby’s whispering and crying, etc., timely discover the baby’s complications, and help the baby to form a habit of communicating with mom and dad through the comfort of speaking and movement. This is to encourage the baby to learn to express emotions.Initial.
For example, when the baby sees lightning or crying or screaming, the mother must tell the baby: “Mom knows that the baby is afraid. When the baby is scared, hug the mother or ask the mother to come over.
At 12-24 months, the baby gradually became self-conscious.
He has a preliminary understanding of other people’s emotions and self-emotion.
Therefore, he often adjusts his emotions by observing the emotional reactions of others.
For example, the baby cries because the mother does not give him biscuits before dinner. He will observe the mother’s reaction and climb up from the hard floor, sit on the soft carpet and cry, continue to observe the mother’s reaction.
It can be said that the mother’s reaction is the main factor determining the time and extent of his crying.
Tips When the baby exaggerates the emotions, Mom and Dad are calm and rational, and the rational attitude can help the baby learn to suppress his anger.
· Mom and Dad can help the baby learn the social rules of emotional expression by watching the children’s picture book or game with the baby.
For example, by adding a “happy face” and an “angry face” to a character in a children’s story to understand why the baby is not happy; why the mother and father will be angry; why the mother and father will be happy together.
After 24-36 months and 2 years old, the baby can expand from focusing on his own emotions to caring about other people’s emotions.
The positive and negative emotions of others can control the baby’s anger.
For example, the baby also began to try to comfort others when he saw that his family was unpleasant. If he saw that his mother was not happy, he would go to the side to play with his toys and no longer mess with his mother.
Tips Mom and Dad need to understand the baby’s anxiety and anger in a relatively equal way.
For example, the baby and the little friend are angry because they are fighting for the toy. Although the mom and dad don’t need instant conversion, they can help the baby to ease the dissatisfaction by talking with the baby’s personality, asking him to feel the feeling and happy game.
Make a special form with your baby to express or vent your unhappiness.
For example, if your baby or mom is not happy, you can go to the sofa cushions; go to the balcony and tell the green plants about the unhappy things, or tell your favorite toys that you are not happy.
· Open-minded mom and dad are the best examples for the baby to learn to control anger.
In daily life, mom and dad often use laughter to resolve quarrels and conflicts. The baby will realize that unhappy is not a big deal. Happy is the most important thing!